I've got many ladies asking me.."How can I tell that a guy might abuse me"? There are many warning signs. Even though these signs are subtle, The challenge isn't in identifying them. It is in accepting the reality that the said person might turn out that way because at that point, the girl might have become carried away by his laudable praise at her. Often times relationships start out with the guy giving a girl some "hot chase"...The calls, texts, favours and what have you. What we often don't know is the fact that potential abusers don't really pretend. They simply UPLAY the parts of them that gets you to fall for them while you make excuses for their abusive warning signs. Here are a few to look out for 1. He makes Indirect Statements He never comes straight to say, he wants something. He suggests it, and plays out the benefits and then leaves you to decide. For example, He might say, " it would be nice if you sp