GUEST POST BY MATTHEW 'FEMI ADEDOYIN The number of gays, lesbians and bisexuals who visit our office is increasing by the day. Some do not know how they started getting attracted to the same sex while some got introduced to it by peers and colleagues. Some started the act because they are looking for acceptance. For some, it was a way to get back at their parents. Some watched it on the TV while some others see it as a way to express rebellion. Many whom I have had the privilege of working with have different reasons and excuses but one thing they have in common is that THEY ARE SEEKING FOR LOVE. See, we all have the tendency to become anything depending on what we see and hear consistently, especially in our formative years. At two, a child begins individuating and by age twelve, the child becomes an individual. This means that the formative years (character and value development age) of a child start from two and end by the time the child clocks twelve. In th...