#SaveAgirlChild Twitter Edition

So verbal Abuse have become one of the most common ills of our society.

I see young women and men walking around with head bowed and shoulders cupped. This bothers me. So on May 23rd, @mimiPneuma and @AtulaegwuAnne thrashed out the virus!

See how the conversation went on Twitter

• ·         AtulaegwuAnne Exquisite people of the finest calibre! make welcome @mimiPneuma as she exposes us to EFFECTS OF VERBAL ABUSE #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma Thanks @AtulaegwuAnne .Good evening everyone and a hearty welcome to this tweetinar.#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma In the next less than an hour, we'd be looking at the effects of verbal abuse. Stay put! @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma VERBAL ABUSE. Let's understand what it's all about. @AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  o    mimiPneuma Any language or behavior that coerces its victim to doubt their perceptions or abilities is Verbal Abuse.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  o    mimiPneuma If your language or behaviour makes another to subjugate themselves to you; you have abused them, verbally. @AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  o    mimiPneuma Verbal abuse as name-calling delivered via speech alone...you won't recognize it when it happens to you.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  o    mimiPneuma Behavioural patterns and dispositions can also be abusive.And in this case,the abuser went verbal with them. @AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

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  o    mimiPneuma Verbal abuse is the only type that affect every single person with any type of communication ability.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  o    mimiPneuma You may be assaulted by verbal abuse at work , at home, at school, on the road. @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild
  mimiPneuma You could even be a victim of verbal abuse if you live alone. @AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  ·         mimiPneuma Effects of verbal abuse follow the same general principle for all human categories. @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma These effects are detrimental to the emotional and psychological wellbeing of the victim,mostly.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma There is substantially, more research studies concerning female victims of verbal abuse, specifically.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma 1. Victims of verbal abuse have difficulty forming conclusions and making decisions. @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma 2. Feel or accept that there is something wrong with them on a basic level. @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma 3.Doubt their ability to communicate.@AtulaegwuAnne #SaveAgirlChild

  
  

  ·         mimiPneuma 4. Experience self-doubt, low self- confidence, and lose spontaneity and/or enthusiasm. @AtulaegwuAnne#SaveAgirlChild

  
  

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AtulaegwuAnne Shoulder pads trended in the 80/90's as classy confidence booster. @ketimay @mimiPneuma#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne So some "bad belle" folks have beat the hell off your self esteem right? Not to worry @ketimay@mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne Confidence isn't some Goddess you conjure from the underworld. She is Installed! @mimiPneuma@ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne Confidence is the matriarch of a Positive self esteem @mimiPneuma @ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne She is the shoulder pads you need to re-install @ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne So how do you install your Confidence?@ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne 1. Measure your shoulders @ketimay@mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne By that I mean you should diagnose what is missing in your life @mimiPneuma @ketimay#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne Ask yourself questions like WHY do I feel less? How did it start? Who is responsible? @ketimay@mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne The answers will open your eyes to how much power you've surrendered to the crippling words of others @ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne 2. Roll up the measuring tape! @ketimay@mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne Yes baby, their opinion of you is only a guide to the better inside you. @ketimay @mimiPneuma#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne So all you should do is take the sense from the nonsense! @ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne To do that successfully, you must master the following Skills @mimiPneuma @ketimay#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne A. Mirror Coaching: The art of Talking to your soul by looking into the mirror @ketimay @mimiPneuma#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne During Mirror Coaching you come face to face with your reflection. @ketimay @mimiPneuma#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne This de mystifies the lies you've believed if you are brave enough to look into your eyes.#SaveAgirlChild @ketimay @mimiPneuma

AtulaegwuAnne Raising your shoulders up sayAloud. I define myself and I say I am (insert the positive you desire)@mimiPneuma @ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne If you can do this every day for 90 days, you will never feel less in worth no matter what! @ketimay@mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne B. MANUSCRIPT RESET: Art of consulting the author of your identity rather than the opinion of mortals@ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne That manuscript is The word of God!!@mimiPneuma @ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne And beyond its description of you as wonderfully made, it details the best you can be@mimiPneuma @ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne So why look back, when you can look ahead? @ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild17 hours ago from Mobile Web (M5)

AtulaegwuAnne Simply find a scripture that addresses the#negative and use it as a daily mantra @mimiPneuma@ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne C. ECHO: The art of speaking aloud to yourself that which you want to believe @mimiPneuma@ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne It's funny how we echo negative until we believe it when we actually could say the positive instead!@ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne So darling. The thing they said isn't the issue but the thing YOU've said! @ketimay @mimiPneuma#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne Back to how to reInstall the #gorgeous. 3. Fix the pads: The pads are a change in your belief system.@ketimay @mimiPneuma #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne The mentality that needs to leave is the one which says "They Know Me Better' @mimiPneuma@ketimay #SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne No honey they don't! You must Be in charge of the vision for your life @mimiPneuma @ketimay#SaveAgirlChild

AtulaegwuAnne With these few Arts i'm sure you shouldn't have any problem feeling less because someone said

AtulaegwuAnne Have a lovely evening everyone!!#SaveAgirlChild

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